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Something More Than Flowers ~ Sympathy Gift Set
Something More Than Flowers ~ Sympathy Gift Set
Something More Than Flowers ~ Sympathy Gift Set
Something More Than Flowers ~ Sympathy Gift Set
Something More Than Flowers ~ Sympathy Gift Set

Something More Than Flowers ~ Sympathy Gift Set

Regular price $0.00 $49.95 Sale

 

 

Arrives in gift packaging & with card. Please specify in note at checkout what you’d like the card to say. 

 

Flowers alone are often not enough when sending condolences. While a popular and lovely gift, they rarely convey the comfort we’d like to offer when someone we care for is hurt, sick, or suffering. Additionally, they require immediate attention, and if there’s one truth about grief, it’s that it takes time. 

 In the state of grieving or illness, having to care for things like plants and cut flowers right away can be a difficult task. In fact, caring for one’s own well being in these times is typically challenging. Sleep is difficult to find, thoughts become scattered, self care takes a back seat, and survival mechanisms go into auto pilot. When grieving, the risk for illness increases due to stress.

Here is an opportunity to send your thoughts as a gentle reminder that self compassion/self care is needed and healthy. Give them the social acceptance they may need to permit themselves to take a break mentally and physically....on their own time. Maybe it won’t be the day they receive it, or even that week, but this gift will be there waiting, when they are ready. 

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Gift includes: 

Gender neutral journal; with an optional list of Grief Journaling Prompts. (Please note at checkout if the prompts should be included) 

Goodnight Tea; .25 Oz:by Waxing Kara. A loose leaf herbal brew made with chamomile, mint, and valerian for relaxation. bIngredients: Organic chamomile, organic spearmint, organic lemon balm, organic valerian, organic lemongrass, organic passion flowers, organic rose petals.

Peace Soak; 2oz-designed to detox and soothe, with Dead Sea and epsom salts, minerals and magnesium that naturally promote healing. Peace Soak also features hand-harvested lavender. Ingredients: Maris Sal (Dead Sea Salt), Magnesium Sulfate (Epsom Salt) Lavender Buds

Candle; 2oz- Either “Strength” Or “Peace of Mind “

Body Butter Or Body Scrub; 2oz- Either “Strength” Or “Peace of Mind “

(see description of each below) 

Waxed planter Grow Kit: in Forget-Me-Knot. 

All-inclusive  indoor grow kits packaged in a wax-coated and water-tight recycled paper tube planter. Includes  two wicking grow mediums that are strategically layered to provide plants with the perfect balance of water, nutrients and oxygen.

Made in the USA. Specs: 5" x 4"

  • Non-GMO Seeds, English Lavender or Forget Me Knot. 
  • Wax-Coated and Water-Tight Recycled Kraft Planter
  • Plant Food
  • Recycled Glass Growing Medium
  • Coco Pith Disk
  • Activated Carbon
  • Simple Instructions

 

 

 Peace of Mind Collection: by Waxing Kara. Scented with a blend of lavender and citrus that round out into a soft, gentle fragrance. 

~Body Butter- Ingredients: Purified Water, Prunus Amygdalus Dulcis (Sweet Almond) Oil, Cocos Nucifera (Coconut) Oil, Emulsifying Wax (Cetearyl Alcohol, Polysorbate 60), Theobroma Cacao (Cocoa) Seed Butter, Stearic Acid, *Fragrance, Phenoxyethanol, Caprylyl Glycol, Sorbic Acid, Waxing Kara Honey.
*Pure Essential Oil Blend

~Spa Candle-Ingredients: Ingredients: Skin-Safe Organic Soy wax, Shea Butter, Coconut Oil, Organic Olive Oil, Beeswax, Cocoa Butter, *Fragrance
* Pure Essential Oils

~Body Scrub- Ingredients: Organic Honey Crystals (Dried Honey, Cane Juice and Molasses), Organic Cane Sugar, Organic Helianthus Annuus (Sunflower) Seed Oil, Cocos Nucifera (Coconut) Oil, Stearic Acid, Polysorbate 20, Theobroma Cacao (Cocoa) Butter, Butyrospermum Parkii (Shea Butter), *Fragrance *Pure Essential Oil Blend

Products from the Strength Collection: by Waxing Kara. Scented with an earthy blend of clove, cinnamon, and citrus, each product in this line is meant to warm and uplift. 

~Candle-Ingredients:Ingredients: Skin-Safe Organic Soy wax, Shea Butter, Coconut Oil, Organic Olive Oil, Beeswax, Cocoa Butter, *Fragrance
* Pure Essential Oils

 

~Body Butter-Ingredients: Purified Water, Prunus Amygdalus Dulcis (Sweet Almond) Oil, Cocos Nucifera (Coconut) Oil, Emulsifying Wax (Cetearyl Alcohol, Polysorbate 60), Theobroma Cacao (Cocoa) Seed Butter, Stearic Acid, Proprietary blend of essential oil including cinnamon and clove, Phenoxyethanol, Caprylyl Glycol, Sorbic Acid, Waxing Kara Honey

~Body Scrub- Ingredients: Organic Honey Crystals (Dried Honey, Cane Juice and Molasses), Organic Cane Sugar, Organic Helianthus Annuus (Sunflower) Seed Oil, Cocos Nucifera (Coconut) Oil, Stearic Acid, Polysorbate 20, Theobroma Cacao (Cocoa) Butter, Butyrospermum Parkii (Shea Butter), *Fragrance *Pure Essential Oil Blend

 

 

 

 All these items have a shelf life of a few months or more. Better odds of being appreciated than Peace Lillies. 

 

 

Some tips from http://lifesnextchaptercoaching.com

Five Really Helpful Things You Can Do/Say if Someone You Know Is Grieving:

1.  Ask, “How are you doing?” Then listen with your heart to the answer without changing the subject or terminating the conversation through one of the statements above. Create a space for them to talk about their experience if they would like to. You might feel honored that they trusted you enough to give an honest answer if it’s something other than “Fine.”

2.  Say that you just found out about the loss from them. Rather than the obligatory “I’m sorry for your loss,” or “I’m sorry that your marriage didn’t work out for you,” try this instead: “I can’t imagine what this is like for you,” followed by “How are you doing?” Everyone’s grief is different. Even if you’ve experienced loss, you really don’t know how they feel. Let them tell you about it in their own words.

3.  “I’d like to help. Would you like me to __________?” Insert specific tasks that you are willing to do that you think might be helpful like “mow the lawn, walk the dog, watch the baby, sit with you, help you clear the garage,” etc. Then show up and do it if the answer is “Yes.” Try to avoid the non-comittal, “Let me know if there is anything I can do for you.” No one believes you really mean it.

4.  When someone cries in front of you, all you have to do is stay put and say something in a soothing voice like, “It’s OK….let that out….I’m here for you.” Comforting them with a touch on the arm or a hug is great too. Just do your best to stay present and don’t try to “fix” it. Don’t hand them a tissue unless they ask for it. The tears will come to a natural completion of their own accord.

5.  Do your best to keep your relationship intact. Avoiding a grieving person because it’s uncomfortable for you to be with them is really hard for them. You can imagine the feelings of isolation they would be feeling if everyone in their lives reacted this way. It’s OK to say the name of the person that is gone. It’s OK to ask what happened. It’s OK to talk about the strangeness of it all. It’s even OK to cry in front of them or with them. Your silence and avoidance is what could make it truly painful for the griever.

People experiencing grief need to be heard, seen, understood, felt. They need to know that they aren’t alone. Know that your love and empathy will go a long way towards supporting a grieving person in their deepest time of need. Know that they would do it for you, too.

 

*All individual product photos courtesy of @waxingkara & @modsprout